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Go Girl Ep 56: Get UNTANGLED! 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith’s #RedTableTalk

Have you watched the Red Table Talk featuring Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith? She (kinda) opened up about the relationship, I mean “entanglement,” she had with R&B singer, August Alsina. The conversation was interesting. Here’s a funny recap, but I actually took some real life lessons from the dialogue and want to share them with you. […]

Go Girl Ep. 55: How To Cut Soul Ties And Reclaim Your Queendom Ft. Relationship Coach, Ja’el The Great

Ja’el “The Great” is a professor, life coach, and dynamic motivational speaker who is passionate about spreading the message that “You are Perfect for Your Purpose.”  Her  Sometimes life goes on but your mind is still stuck on the past. You have to break the soul tie, girl! Listen in as we have girl talk about […]

Go Girl Ep. 54: Tammi Mac Explains “White Allies and Black Receipts” + How To Let Go of Baggage And Believe In Yourself! [WATCH]

Tammi Mac is a radio personality on 102.3 KJLH in Los Angeles,  TV host on Fox Soul, and an award-winning actress. She is vocal and passionate when it comes to equality, so I wanted to have girl talk about the current state of America. She doesn’t shy away from her views at all. Listen in as she breaks […]

Go Girl Ep 53: Be Part of The Change, Not The Trend in Regards to Racism and Police Brutality

#BlackLivesMatter is not just a hashtag, it’s a movement that campaigns against violence and systemic racism towards black people. The recent murder of George Floyd, another unarmed Black man killed by a white cop, has sparked an international outcry to end racism and police brutality. We are tired and fed up. People of all races and […]

Break The Cycle…In Relationships

Man dates girl. Everything is great. Man gets heart broken. Man never opens his heart the same again. Woman dates guy. Everything is great. Woman gets heart broken. Woman never opens her heart the same again. So what are we  stuck with? Heartbroken men and women who try to move on and date again. But now […]

Mind Sex

“Making love is just as much mental, I like to know what I’m getting into. See we could have mind sex…Before we make love, let’s have a good conversation…” This a line from the song, “Mind Sex” by Dead Prez.  And I. Love. It. Most people need to listen to this track and realize that intelligence is SEXY! Stimulate […]

A Relationship Is Just Like a Job

Written on August 9, 2009: I was talking to a friend and I guess my creative juices started flowing lol. Feel free to comment or add to the list!!! A Relationship is JUST like a job… The Interview: After the first conversation you can already tell if you want to pursue this person. If not, then there won’t […]

I Need a Man

I need a man. To make me smile. To make me happy. To complete me. Pause. No you don’t. If those are your thoughts then please read on. Last year I watched Basketball Non-Wives and viewers were talking about Royce and how she had a new boyfriend every season of the show. She argued that she’s a “relationship” […]

Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!

People get in relationships, fall in love, fall out of love, but stay in the relationship. I’ve noticed that some people tend to stay in relationships far longer than they should. Someone could continuously get mistreated, but for some reason…you can’t let go. It’s okay. It’s normal to hold on to a relationship a little longer […]

10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day

People tend to say I have a very calm demeanor and a positive attitude and it’s because I don’t let too many things get to me. I’m what you would call, “calm, cool and collected.” Also, I practice some daily routines that keep me centered. No one wants to have a bad, stressful day. So […]

One Word With Two Letters Can Change Your Entire Life

As women, we tend to have a caring, nurturing heart. We’re so sweet and always willing to give a helping hand. We go out of our way for others without thinking twice and ultimately spread ourselves thin. Overall, we do way too much and sometimes get little to nothing in return. But there comes a […]

Romance WITHOUT Finance

So we all know the phrase, “No romance, without finance.” Some people will not date someone if they are not making a certain amount of money or not flossing their cash. These people are called gold diggers.  And they are making it hard for women who want real love instead of the superficial crap. Some […]

Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to the […]

Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World

This describes MY “perfect date”…Meet guy. Guy calls to schedule date. Guy arrives to house on time. Guy walks to door. Guy opens car door for me. Guy makes me laugh; we engage in interesting conversation. Guy pays for date.  Guy walks me to my door after date. Guy calls/text when he gets home to […]

Let A Man Be A Man

I was walking towards my work building the other day and there was enough time for me to open the door to the lobby area, but I saw a gentleman who looked like he was taking brisk steps so he could open the door for me. I reached for the handle, but then I looked […]

Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!

So in the dating world, men and women have their own requirements. Most men want women to cook, clean, always look good, be independent, cater to him and now  I’m assuming there’s a new rule: Blame yourself IF he decides to cheat on you.  Ladies, STOP! Firstly, no, this isn’t a new requirement from men, but it seems […]

“…She’s Never Satisfied”

Prince’s song, “When Doves Cry” came on and as I bobbed my head and snapped my fingers to the beat I paused after singing the line, “she’s never satisfied.” I stopped and thought to myself…I don’t want to be that woman, but I am. I’ve realized, in my career journey, that I set a goal, […]

Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated

I watched The Secret recently and heard the quote: Treat YOURSELF the way you want to be treated by others. Sounds simple right? Here’s the problem. So many people depend on others to make them happy or to feel good about themselves that they forget that everything they need to live a fulfilling life is right on the inside […]

What’s Wrong With You?!

So I met this guy a few years ago… he was 30-years-old, has his own business, own car, own place, no kids, Masters Degree, fit, nice guy, single and never been married. Sounds like he was all that and a bag of chips right? Well I told my friend about him and she jokingly asked, “What’s wrong with him? Is […]

Go Girl Ep 50: How to Live A Rich Life During Uncertain Times Ft. Alisha Richard

I hope you’re doing well in the midst of what’s happening in the world. This is a time to slow down and reflect. I know it’s hard to be productive but what about centering in and learning how to be rich mentally, emotionally and spiritually during this time? I had the pleasure of speaking with Alisha […]

Go Girl Ep 49: From Layoff to Finding Purpose and Passion Ft. Radio Personality and Artist, Renee Taylor

Right now we’re all going through a transition because of the Coronavirus. Life as we know it has definitely changed and we’ve been forced to slow down. Unfortunately, some people have experienced a loss of freedom, a loss of a loved one, or a loss of employment. A few years ago, radio personality, Renee Taylor, was […]

Go Girl Ep 46: How To Attract a Healthy Relationship After Leaving a Toxic One Featuring Dr. Morgan Anderson

Have you ever been in  a toxic, unhealthy, or abusive relationship? Maybe you were dating a narcissist. Or maybe you were dating someone you were simply incompatible with. Either way, you’re out of it and you want to move on from your past hurt and pain. You want to move on to a loving, healthy […]

Go Girl Ep 44: Your Hairstylist is Not Your Therapist + How To Relieve Stress Ft. Therapist, Angela Body

I just went to get my hair done the other day and I’m so guilty of sharing some of my personal business with my hairstylist. I’m sure you’ve been in that situation where you’re telling your stylist about your issues with your family, partner, or friends. But is she equipped with the tools to really […]

Go Girl Ep 43: How to Please Yourself And Your Partner In The Bedroom Ft. The “Grapefruit Lady,” Auntie Angel

Valentine’s Day is around the corner so I decided to focus on self-love tips for the bedroom! I figured Auntie Angel would be the perfect guest for this topic. One of her techniques was used in the movie, Girls Trip, and involves a grapefruit, a banana and Tiffany Haddish.  Listen in as we discuss how to please yourself […]