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Break The Cycle…In Relationships

Man dates girl. Everything is great. Man gets heart broken. Man never opens his heart the same again. Woman dates guy. Everything is great. Woman gets heart broken. Woman never opens her heart the same again. So what are we  stuck with? Heartbroken men and women who try to move on and date...

Mind Sex

“Making love is just as much mental, I like to know what I’m getting into. See we could have mind sex…Before we make love, let’s have a good conversation…” This a line from the song, “Mind Sex” by Dead Prez.  And I. Love. It. Most people need to listen to this tra...

A Relationship Is Just Like a Job

Written on August 9, 2009: I was talking to a friend and I guess my creative juices started flowing lol. Feel free to comment or add to the list!!! A Relationship is JUST like a job… The Interview: After the first conversation you can already tell if you want to pursue this person....

I Need a Man

I need a man. To make me smile. To make me happy. To complete me. Pause. No you don’t. If those are your thoughts then please read on. Last year I watched Basketball Non-Wives and viewers were talking about Royce and how she had a new boyfriend every season of the show. She argued t...

Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!

People get in relationships, fall in love, fall out of love, but stay in the relationship. I’ve noticed that some people tend to stay in relationships far longer than they should. Someone could continuously get mistreated, but for some reason…you can’t let go. It’s okay. It’s normal t...

10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day

People tend to say I have a very calm demeanor and a positive attitude and it’s because I don’t let too many things get to me. I’m what you would call, “calm, cool and collected.” Also, I practice some daily routines that keep me centered. No one wants to have a bad, stressful day. So I’...

Romance WITHOUT Finance

So we all know the phrase, “No romance, without finance.” Some people will not date someone if they are not making a certain amount of money or not flossing their cash. These people are called gold diggers.  And they are making it hard for women who want real love instead of the superficial...

Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to th...

Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World

This describes MY “perfect date”…Meet guy. Guy calls to schedule date. Guy arrives to house on time. Guy walks to door. Guy opens car door for me. Guy makes me laugh; we engage in interesting conversation. Guy pays for date.  Guy walks me to my door after date. Guy calls/text when he gets hom...

Let A Man Be A Man

I was walking towards my work building the other day and there was enough time for me to open the door to the lobby area, but I saw a gentleman who looked like he was taking brisk steps so he could open the door for me. I reached for the handle, but then I looked at him, put my hand down and stepped...

“…She’s Never Satisfied”

Prince’s song, “When Doves Cry” came on and as I bobbed my head and snapped my fingers to the beat I paused after singing the line, “she’s never satisfied.” I stopped and thought to myself…I don’t want to be that woman, but I am. I’ve realized, in my career journey, that I set a go...

Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated

I watched The Secret recently and heard the quote: Treat YOURSELF the way you want to be treated by others. Sounds simple right? Here’s the problem. So many people depend on others to make them happy or to feel good about themselves that they forget that everything they need to...

What’s Wrong With You?!

So I met this guy a few years ago… he was 30-years-old, has his own business, own car, own place, no kids, Masters Degree, fit, nice guy, single and never been married. Sounds like he was all that and a bag of chips right? Well I told my friend about him and she jokingly a...

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