Go Girl Ep. 60: Stop Judging Yourself: 3 Ways To Have More Self – Compassion

Girl, why are you so hard on yourself? You’re doing your best! You put others before yourself! You love hard! You give hard! You’re amazing! See yourself the way others see you because… You Are Powerful! Sometimes we can be our own worst critic, right? We put ourselves down, we think we’re not doing enough,Continue reading “Go Girl Ep. 60: Stop Judging Yourself: 3 Ways To Have More Self – Compassion”

Go Girl Ep. 59: Live On Purpose And Change Your Perspective

What a year! 2020 was supposed to be a “clear vision” year, right? Full of hope, purpose, and promise! And guess what, it still is! You just have to change your mind. Change your perspective. This can still be the best year of your life. Yes, we’re all experiencing loss. Pain. Grief. Anger. Sadness. ButContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 59: Live On Purpose And Change Your Perspective”

Go Girl Ep. 58: #WAP By Cardi B Ft. Megan Thee Stallion – Empowering Or Embarrassing?

Why are people so mad??? Cardi B. and Megan Thee Stallion dropped the track, “WAP” last week and people are giving it mixed reviews. I’m open to different opinions, but one thing I can’t get with is double standards. People have the audacity to criticize the female rappers because of their explicit lyrics, yet menContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 58: #WAP By Cardi B Ft. Megan Thee Stallion – Empowering Or Embarrassing?”

Go Girl Ep. 57: How To Overcome Suicidal Thoughts Ft. Author of “The Day You Left,” Elvira Guzman

Best-Selling Author, Elvie G PR CEO, Magazine Writer & Inspirational TV personality has released her first children’s book, “The Day You Left.” The book is a great read for anyone who has lost a parent or family member in their life and they need a little uplifting to get back up again. The book isContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 57: How To Overcome Suicidal Thoughts Ft. Author of “The Day You Left,” Elvira Guzman”

Go Girl Ep 56: Get UNTANGLED! 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith’s #RedTableTalk

Have you watched the Red Table Talk featuring Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith? She (kinda) opened up about the relationship, I mean “entanglement,” she had with R&B singer, August Alsina. The conversation was interesting. Here’s a funny recap, but I actually took some real life lessons from the dialogue and want to share them with you.Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 56: Get UNTANGLED! 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Will and Jada Pinkett-Smith’s #RedTableTalk”

Go Girl Ep. 55: How To Cut Soul Ties And Reclaim Your Queendom Ft. Relationship Coach, Ja’el The Great

Ja’el “The Great” is a professor, life coach, and dynamic motivational speaker who is passionate about spreading the message that “You are Perfect for Your Purpose.”  Her  Sometimes life goes on but your mind is still stuck on the past. You have to break the soul tie, girl! Listen in as we have girl talk aboutContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 55: How To Cut Soul Ties And Reclaim Your Queendom Ft. Relationship Coach, Ja’el The Great”

Go Girl Ep. 54: Tammi Mac Explains “White Allies and Black Receipts” + How To Let Go of Baggage And Believe In Yourself! [WATCH]

Tammi Mac is a radio personality on 102.3 KJLH in Los Angeles,  TV host on Fox Soul, and an award-winning actress. She is vocal and passionate when it comes to equality, so I wanted to have girl talk about the current state of America. She doesn’t shy away from her views at all. Listen in as she breaksContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 54: Tammi Mac Explains “White Allies and Black Receipts” + How To Let Go of Baggage And Believe In Yourself! [WATCH]”

Go Girl Ep 53: Be Part of The Change, Not The Trend in Regards to Racism and Police Brutality

#BlackLivesMatter is not just a hashtag, it’s a movement that campaigns against violence and systemic racism towards black people. The recent murder of George Floyd, another unarmed Black man killed by a white cop, has sparked an international outcry to end racism and police brutality. We are tired and fed up. People of all races andContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 53: Be Part of The Change, Not The Trend in Regards to Racism and Police Brutality”

Go Girl Ep 52: Self-Love is Self-Acceptance

This episode of the Go Girl Podcast is dedicated to the ladies who are on their self-love journey. Love is acceptance. We want others to think the world of us, love us, and accept us, but do you accept yourself? Do you genuinely love every part of who you are? Or do you judge yourself andContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 52: Self-Love is Self-Acceptance”

Break The Cycle…In Relationships

Man dates girl. Everything is great. Man gets heart broken. Man never opens his heart the same again. Woman dates guy. Everything is great. Woman gets heart broken. Woman never opens her heart the same again. So what are we  stuck with? Heartbroken men and women who try to move on and date again. But nowContinue reading “Break The Cycle…In Relationships”

Mind Sex

“Making love is just as much mental, I like to know what I’m getting into. See we could have mind sex…Before we make love, let’s have a good conversation…” This a line from the song, “Mind Sex” by Dead Prez.  And I. Love. It. Most people need to listen to this track and realize that intelligence is SEXY! StimulateContinue reading “Mind Sex”

A Relationship Is Just Like a Job

Written on August 9, 2009: I was talking to a friend and I guess my creative juices started flowing lol. Feel free to comment or add to the list!!! A Relationship is JUST like a job… The Interview: After the first conversation you can already tell if you want to pursue this person. If not, then there won’tContinue reading “A Relationship Is Just Like a Job”

3 Ways To Meditate For Beginners [VIDEO]

Hey girls! I always suggest meditation as a great practice for self-care so I figured I’d show you HOW to meditate. Meditation releases stress, worry, anxiety, depression, and helps you to focus and stay present. I want you to win, girl! “How you gon win if you ain’t right within???” I use at least one of theContinue reading “3 Ways To Meditate For Beginners [VIDEO]”

I Need a Man

I need a man. To make me smile. To make me happy. To complete me. Pause. No you don’t. If those are your thoughts then please read on. Last year I watched Basketball Non-Wives and viewers were talking about Royce and how she had a new boyfriend every season of the show. She argued that she’s a “relationship”Continue reading “I Need a Man”

Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!

People get in relationships, fall in love, fall out of love, but stay in the relationship. I’ve noticed that some people tend to stay in relationships far longer than they should. Someone could continuously get mistreated, but for some reason…you can’t let go. It’s okay. It’s normal to hold on to a relationship a little longerContinue reading “Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!”

10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day

People tend to say I have a very calm demeanor and a positive attitude and it’s because I don’t let too many things get to me. I’m what you would call, “calm, cool and collected.” Also, I practice some daily routines that keep me centered. No one wants to have a bad, stressful day. SoContinue reading “10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day”

One Word With Two Letters Can Change Your Entire Life

As women, we tend to have a caring, nurturing heart. We’re so sweet and always willing to give a helping hand. We go out of our way for others without thinking twice and ultimately spread ourselves thin. Overall, we do way too much and sometimes get little to nothing in return. But there comes aContinue reading “One Word With Two Letters Can Change Your Entire Life”

Romance WITHOUT Finance

So we all know the phrase, “No romance, without finance.” Some people will not date someone if they are not making a certain amount of money or not flossing their cash. These people are called gold diggers.  And they are making it hard for women who want real love instead of the superficial crap. SomeContinue reading “Romance WITHOUT Finance”

Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to theContinue reading “Freeze!”

Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World

This describes MY “perfect date”…Meet guy. Guy calls to schedule date. Guy arrives to house on time. Guy walks to door. Guy opens car door for me. Guy makes me laugh; we engage in interesting conversation. Guy pays for date.  Guy walks me to my door after date. Guy calls/text when he gets home toContinue reading “Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World”

Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!

So in the dating world, men and women have their own requirements. Most men want women to cook, clean, always look good, be independent, cater to him and now  I’m assuming there’s a new rule: Blame yourself IF he decides to cheat on you.  Ladies, STOP! Firstly, no, this isn’t a new requirement from men, but it seemsContinue reading “Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!”

“…She’s Never Satisfied”

Prince’s song, “When Doves Cry” came on and as I bobbed my head and snapped my fingers to the beat I paused after singing the line, “she’s never satisfied.” I stopped and thought to myself…I don’t want to be that woman, but I am. I’ve realized, in my career journey, that I set a goal,Continue reading ““…She’s Never Satisfied””

Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated

I watched The Secret recently and heard the quote: Treat YOURSELF the way you want to be treated by others. Sounds simple right? Here’s the problem. So many people depend on others to make them happy or to feel good about themselves that they forget that everything they need to live a fulfilling life is right on the insideContinue reading “Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated”

What’s Wrong With You?!

So I met this guy a few years ago… he was 30-years-old, has his own business, own car, own place, no kids, Masters Degree, fit, nice guy, single and never been married. Sounds like he was all that and a bag of chips right? Well I told my friend about him and she jokingly asked, “What’s wrong with him? IsContinue reading “What’s Wrong With You?!”

Go Girl Ep 51: 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Jill Scott and Erykah Badu

Jill Scott and Erykah Badu participated in the “Verzuz” Instagram contest and the queens did NOT disappoint. The idea is for both artists to “battle” by playing 20 songs each and letting their fans vote on a winner. Well these souls decided to celebrate each other instead of compete with one another and I wasContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 51: 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Jill Scott and Erykah Badu”

Go Girl Ep 50: How to Live A Rich Life During Uncertain Times Ft. Alisha Richard

I hope you’re doing well in the midst of what’s happening in the world. This is a time to slow down and reflect. I know it’s hard to be productive but what about centering in and learning how to be rich mentally, emotionally and spiritually during this time? I had the pleasure of speaking with AlishaContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 50: How to Live A Rich Life During Uncertain Times Ft. Alisha Richard”

Go Girl Ep 49: From Layoff to Finding Purpose and Passion Ft. Radio Personality and Artist, Renee Taylor

Right now we’re all going through a transition because of the Coronavirus. Life as we know it has definitely changed and we’ve been forced to slow down. Unfortunately, some people have experienced a loss of freedom, a loss of a loved one, or a loss of employment. A few years ago, radio personality, Renee Taylor, wasContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 49: From Layoff to Finding Purpose and Passion Ft. Radio Personality and Artist, Renee Taylor”

Go Girl Ep 48: 10 Self – Love Questions To Ask Yourself While Social Distancing

How are you doing, girl? Have you checked in with yourself lately? I know it’s hard to be productive right now, but we can at least make sure we’re taking care of our mental health. I’ve been writing in my journal a lot lately so I figured I would do something different for this episode. I compiled 10Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 48: 10 Self – Love Questions To Ask Yourself While Social Distancing”

Go Girl Ep 47: 5 Ways To Stay Hopeful While in Quarantine

We’re living in uncertain times right now. The world as we know it will be different once the “stay at home” order is lifted, but will you be different, too? We have absolutely no control over the outcome of the Coronavirus, but we do have control over our mind, body and spirit right now. Now is theContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 47: 5 Ways To Stay Hopeful While in Quarantine”