Go Girl Ep 107: Tip From My Therapist- How to Speak up Instead of Shutting Down and Giving The Silent Treatment

Hey, girls! So one communication flaw that I’m working on is learning to speak up instead of giving someone the silent treatment. I’m much better than I used to be because I used to ghost people. Yep! Shame on me! Ha! But that’s not nice and definitely doesn’t move a relationship forward. I’m currently inContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 107: Tip From My Therapist- How to Speak up Instead of Shutting Down and Giving The Silent Treatment”

Go Girl Ep. 106: How to Develop a High-Value Mindset, Operate in Your Feminine Energy, and The Problem with Dating Potential

Hey, girls! Get ready to attract your high-value man after listening to this episode! We’re covering a few different topics with Mindset and Dating coach, Kate Schroeter. A lot of women date potential. They think they can change a man and make him better, but as Schroeter says, “Be a lover, not a mother.” MakeContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 106: How to Develop a High-Value Mindset, Operate in Your Feminine Energy, and The Problem with Dating Potential”

Go Girl Ep. 101: Your Type Might Not be Right For You

Hey, girls! Do you have a “type?” Does he have to be tall, dark, and handsome? Does he have to have an Ivy league education and have a 6 figure income? Do you like a bad boy or a nice guy? A few guys on another podcast called Russell Wilson a cornball and said wondered how couldContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 101: Your Type Might Not be Right For You”

Go Girl Ep 97: The Tinder Swindler + Signs of Love Bombing While Dating

Hey, girls! So last week we talked about “breadcrumbing” while dating which is where someone feeds you just enough to keep you around. But what about the opposite extreme? What if someone is showing TOO much attention TOO soon? Too many gifts, too many compliments, too many fancy dates and you barely know them? That’s called love-bombing.Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 97: The Tinder Swindler + Signs of Love Bombing While Dating”

Go Girl Ep 96: How to Handle “Breadcrumbing” While Dating

Hey,girls! Every time we turn around it seems like there’s a new term to learn in the dating world. First, there was ghosting which is when you’re connecting with someone and then they disappear without an explanation. Now, breadcrumbing is when someone feeds you just enough to keep you coming back for more. Essentially, they’reContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 96: How to Handle “Breadcrumbing” While Dating”

Go Girl Ep. 95: Don’t Settle, Don’t Date Down Ft. Actress and Music Artist, Brely Evans

Hey, girls! My guest today is no stranger to the Go Girl Podcast. Brely Evans is a series regular on the BET+ series, The Family Business, author of The ABCs of I Ams (a book full of positive affirmations), and she just released a singled called, Don’t Date Down.  She opened up to me aboutContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 95: Don’t Settle, Don’t Date Down Ft. Actress and Music Artist, Brely Evans”

Go Girl Ep. 92 Are You Ready to Love? 3 Ways to Prepare

Hey, girls! I don’t watch too much TV, but I do watch “Ready to Love” every Friday night. This last season was a little disappointing. I wanted to see more genuine connections, but the season wasn’t giving what it was supposed to give! But it had me thinking, are YOU ready to love? A lotContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 92 Are You Ready to Love? 3 Ways to Prepare”

Go Girl Ep. 83: How to Use the 5 Love Languages to Express Gratitude

Hey, girls!Thanksgiving is tomorrow and that means we get to spend time with family, eat good food, and have lots of fun! The main thing I enjoy about this time of year is the chance to spread love! It’s also an opportunity to reflect on what we’re thankful for. So today I decided to haveContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 83: How to Use the 5 Love Languages to Express Gratitude”

How to Thrive After Leaving an Abusive Relationship

After 11 attempts to leave an abusive relationship, Monet Cullins started The Bold Lips Revolution Cosmetics line while in a domestic violence shelter, she’s now a Transformational Speaker and the author of “You Good, Sis?” She stresses the importance of checking in with people and asking how they’re doing, but don’t forget to check on yourself.Continue reading “How to Thrive After Leaving an Abusive Relationship”

Go Girl Ep. 78: Are You Having Butterflies Or Is It Really Anxiety? Red Flags vs Green Flags, and Toxic Dating Advice

Hey, girls! Everyone wants love but sometimes we attract the wrong partner because we ignore red flags. There was a trend last week on Twitter where people shared red flags. I even participated in the madness on the Go Girl Instagram page, but I wanted to take it a step further. I brought in datingContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 78: Are You Having Butterflies Or Is It Really Anxiety? Red Flags vs Green Flags, and Toxic Dating Advice”

Go Girl Ep. 77: Abuse Isn’t Always Physical – Other Subtle Signs of Abuse

Hey girls! So last week we talked about how to set boundaries with narcissists and toxic people! Well sometimes you might not even know you’re in a toxic situation until you’re out of it. Today we’re going to talk about the subtle signs of abuse. Years ago I was in an emotionally and verbally abusiveContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 77: Abuse Isn’t Always Physical – Other Subtle Signs of Abuse”

Go Girl Ep. 72 How To Turn Your Pain Into Power, Release Toxic People, and Love Yourself Better Ft Toni Jones

Hey, girls! I’m SO excited for you to listen to this episode of the Go Girl Podcast featuring Affirmation Music artist, Toni Jones. Every single one of her songs features affirmations and an uplifting message, all over a dope beat. *Note: Make sure you’re following the Go Girl website for all updates. Click Here toContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 72 How To Turn Your Pain Into Power, Release Toxic People, and Love Yourself Better Ft Toni Jones”

Break The Cycle…In Relationships

Man dates girl. Everything is great. Man gets heart broken. Man never opens his heart the same again. Woman dates guy. Everything is great. Woman gets heart broken. Woman never opens her heart the same again. So what are we  stuck with? Heartbroken men and women who try to move on and date again. But nowContinue reading “Break The Cycle…In Relationships”

A Relationship Is Just Like a Job

Written on August 9, 2009: I was talking to a friend and I guess my creative juices started flowing lol. Feel free to comment or add to the list!!! A Relationship is JUST like a job… The Interview: After the first conversation you can already tell if you want to pursue this person. If not, then there won’tContinue reading “A Relationship Is Just Like a Job”

I Need a Man

I need a man. To make me smile. To make me happy. To complete me. Pause. No you don’t. If those are your thoughts then please read on. Last year I watched Basketball Non-Wives and viewers were talking about Royce and how she had a new boyfriend every season of the show. She argued that she’s a “relationship”Continue reading “I Need a Man”

Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!

People get in relationships, fall in love, fall out of love, but stay in the relationship. I’ve noticed that some people tend to stay in relationships far longer than they should. Someone could continuously get mistreated, but for some reason…you can’t let go. It’s okay. It’s normal to hold on to a relationship a little longerContinue reading “Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!”

Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to theContinue reading “Freeze!”