Break The Cycle…In Relationships

Man dates girl. Everything is great. Man gets heart broken. Man never opens his heart the same again. Woman dates guy. Everything is great. Woman gets heart broken. Woman never opens her heart the same again. So what are we  stuck with? Heartbroken men and women who try to move on and date again. But nowContinue reading “Break The Cycle…In Relationships”

Mind Sex

“Making love is just as much mental, I like to know what I’m getting into. See we could have mind sex…Before we make love, let’s have a good conversation…” This a line from the song, “Mind Sex” by Dead Prez.  And I. Love. It. Most people need to listen to this track and realize that intelligence is SEXY! StimulateContinue reading “Mind Sex”

A Relationship Is Just Like a Job

Written on August 9, 2009: I was talking to a friend and I guess my creative juices started flowing lol. Feel free to comment or add to the list!!! A Relationship is JUST like a job… The Interview: After the first conversation you can already tell if you want to pursue this person. If not, then there won’tContinue reading “A Relationship Is Just Like a Job”

3 Ways To Meditate For Beginners [VIDEO]

Hey girls! I always suggest meditation as a great practice for self-care so I figured I’d show you HOW to meditate. Meditation releases stress, worry, anxiety, depression, and helps you to focus and stay present. I want you to win, girl! “How you gon win if you ain’t right within???” I use at least one of theContinue reading “3 Ways To Meditate For Beginners [VIDEO]”

I Need a Man

I need a man. To make me smile. To make me happy. To complete me. Pause. No you don’t. If those are your thoughts then please read on. Last year I watched Basketball Non-Wives and viewers were talking about Royce and how she had a new boyfriend every season of the show. She argued that she’s a “relationship”Continue reading “I Need a Man”

Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!

People get in relationships, fall in love, fall out of love, but stay in the relationship. I’ve noticed that some people tend to stay in relationships far longer than they should. Someone could continuously get mistreated, but for some reason…you can’t let go. It’s okay. It’s normal to hold on to a relationship a little longerContinue reading “Let It Go! Easy To Say, Hard To Do!”

10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day

People tend to say I have a very calm demeanor and a positive attitude and it’s because I don’t let too many things get to me. I’m what you would call, “calm, cool and collected.” Also, I practice some daily routines that keep me centered. No one wants to have a bad, stressful day. SoContinue reading “10 Things To Do To Have A Good Day”

One Word With Two Letters Can Change Your Entire Life

As women, we tend to have a caring, nurturing heart. We’re so sweet and always willing to give a helping hand. We go out of our way for others without thinking twice and ultimately spread ourselves thin. Overall, we do way too much and sometimes get little to nothing in return. But there comes aContinue reading “One Word With Two Letters Can Change Your Entire Life”

Romance WITHOUT Finance

So we all know the phrase, “No romance, without finance.” Some people will not date someone if they are not making a certain amount of money or not flossing their cash. These people are called gold diggers.  And they are making it hard for women who want real love instead of the superficial crap. SomeContinue reading “Romance WITHOUT Finance”

Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to theContinue reading “Freeze!”

Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World

This describes MY “perfect date”…Meet guy. Guy calls to schedule date. Guy arrives to house on time. Guy walks to door. Guy opens car door for me. Guy makes me laugh; we engage in interesting conversation. Guy pays for date.  Guy walks me to my door after date. Guy calls/text when he gets home toContinue reading “Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World”

Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!

So in the dating world, men and women have their own requirements. Most men want women to cook, clean, always look good, be independent, cater to him and now  I’m assuming there’s a new rule: Blame yourself IF he decides to cheat on you.  Ladies, STOP! Firstly, no, this isn’t a new requirement from men, but it seemsContinue reading “Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!”

“…She’s Never Satisfied”

Prince’s song, “When Doves Cry” came on and as I bobbed my head and snapped my fingers to the beat I paused after singing the line, “she’s never satisfied.” I stopped and thought to myself…I don’t want to be that woman, but I am. I’ve realized, in my career journey, that I set a goal,Continue reading ““…She’s Never Satisfied””

Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated

I watched The Secret recently and heard the quote: Treat YOURSELF the way you want to be treated by others. Sounds simple right? Here’s the problem. So many people depend on others to make them happy or to feel good about themselves that they forget that everything they need to live a fulfilling life is right on the insideContinue reading “Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated”

What’s Wrong With You?!

So I met this guy a few years ago… he was 30-years-old, has his own business, own car, own place, no kids, Masters Degree, fit, nice guy, single and never been married. Sounds like he was all that and a bag of chips right? Well I told my friend about him and she jokingly asked, “What’s wrong with him? IsContinue reading “What’s Wrong With You?!”