Freeze!

So I posed a question on my facebook: “Do guys REALLY expect a woman to “freeze”? Expect a woman to wait on him until he’s ready to settle down? He goes out, does his own thing, see if there’s something better, realize that there’s nothing better out there…and he tries to go back to theContinue reading “Freeze!”

Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World

This describes MY “perfect date”…Meet guy. Guy calls to schedule date. Guy arrives to house on time. Guy walks to door. Guy opens car door for me. Guy makes me laugh; we engage in interesting conversation. Guy pays for date.  Guy walks me to my door after date. Guy calls/text when he gets home toContinue reading “Traditional Girl In A Modern Day World”

Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!

So in the dating world, men and women have their own requirements. Most men want women to cook, clean, always look good, be independent, cater to him and now  I’m assuming there’s a new rule: Blame yourself IF he decides to cheat on you.  Ladies, STOP! Firstly, no, this isn’t a new requirement from men, but it seemsContinue reading “Ladies, STOP! It’s Not Your Fault Your Man Cheated On You!”

“…She’s Never Satisfied”

Prince’s song, “When Doves Cry” came on and as I bobbed my head and snapped my fingers to the beat I paused after singing the line, “she’s never satisfied.” I stopped and thought to myself…I don’t want to be that woman, but I am. I’ve realized, in my career journey, that I set a goal,Continue reading ““…She’s Never Satisfied””

Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated

I watched The Secret recently and heard the quote: Treat YOURSELF the way you want to be treated by others. Sounds simple right? Here’s the problem. So many people depend on others to make them happy or to feel good about themselves that they forget that everything they need to live a fulfilling life is right on the insideContinue reading “Treat YOURSELF The Way You Want To Be Treated”

What’s Wrong With You?!

So I met this guy a few years ago… he was 30-years-old, has his own business, own car, own place, no kids, Masters Degree, fit, nice guy, single and never been married. Sounds like he was all that and a bag of chips right? Well I told my friend about him and she jokingly asked, “What’s wrong with him? IsContinue reading “What’s Wrong With You?!”

Go Girl Ep 51: 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Jill Scott and Erykah Badu

Jill Scott and Erykah Badu participated in the “Verzuz” Instagram contest and the queens did NOT disappoint. The idea is for both artists to “battle” by playing 20 songs each and letting their fans vote on a winner. Well these souls decided to celebrate each other instead of compete with one another and I wasContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 51: 5 Lessons We Can All Learn From Jill Scott and Erykah Badu”

Go Girl Ep 50: How to Live A Rich Life During Uncertain Times Ft. Alisha Richard

I hope you’re doing well in the midst of what’s happening in the world. This is a time to slow down and reflect. I know it’s hard to be productive but what about centering in and learning how to be rich mentally, emotionally and spiritually during this time? I had the pleasure of speaking with AlishaContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 50: How to Live A Rich Life During Uncertain Times Ft. Alisha Richard”

Go Girl Ep 49: From Layoff to Finding Purpose and Passion Ft. Radio Personality and Artist, Renee Taylor

Right now we’re all going through a transition because of the Coronavirus. Life as we know it has definitely changed and we’ve been forced to slow down. Unfortunately, some people have experienced a loss of freedom, a loss of a loved one, or a loss of employment. A few years ago, radio personality, Renee Taylor, wasContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 49: From Layoff to Finding Purpose and Passion Ft. Radio Personality and Artist, Renee Taylor”

Go Girl Ep 48: 10 Self – Love Questions To Ask Yourself While Social Distancing

How are you doing, girl? Have you checked in with yourself lately? I know it’s hard to be productive right now, but we can at least make sure we’re taking care of our mental health. I’ve been writing in my journal a lot lately so I figured I would do something different for this episode. I compiled 10Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 48: 10 Self – Love Questions To Ask Yourself While Social Distancing”

Go Girl Ep 47: 5 Ways To Stay Hopeful While in Quarantine

We’re living in uncertain times right now. The world as we know it will be different once the “stay at home” order is lifted, but will you be different, too? We have absolutely no control over the outcome of the Coronavirus, but we do have control over our mind, body and spirit right now. Now is theContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 47: 5 Ways To Stay Hopeful While in Quarantine”

Go Girl Ep 46: How To Attract a Healthy Relationship After Leaving a Toxic One Featuring Dr. Morgan Anderson

Have you ever been in  a toxic, unhealthy, or abusive relationship? Maybe you were dating a narcissist. Or maybe you were dating someone you were simply incompatible with. Either way, you’re out of it and you want to move on from your past hurt and pain. You want to move on to a loving, healthyContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 46: How To Attract a Healthy Relationship After Leaving a Toxic One Featuring Dr. Morgan Anderson”

Go Girl Ep 45: 5 Reasons Why It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

Girl! Aren’t you tired? I heard it’s Mercury Retrograde. My emotions have been off the chain lately and quite frankly, I’m over it. But then again, I’m not. It’s been freeing to release and cry if I need to. It’s freeing not to care what others think or say. It’s freeing to just be. AsContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 45: 5 Reasons Why It’s Okay to Not Be Okay”

Go Girl Ep 44: Your Hairstylist is Not Your Therapist + How To Relieve Stress Ft. Therapist, Angela Body

I just went to get my hair done the other day and I’m so guilty of sharing some of my personal business with my hairstylist. I’m sure you’ve been in that situation where you’re telling your stylist about your issues with your family, partner, or friends. But is she equipped with the tools to reallyContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 44: Your Hairstylist is Not Your Therapist + How To Relieve Stress Ft. Therapist, Angela Body”

Go Girl Ep 43: How to Please Yourself And Your Partner In The Bedroom Ft. The “Grapefruit Lady,” Auntie Angel

Valentine’s Day is around the corner so I decided to focus on self-love tips for the bedroom! I figured Auntie Angel would be the perfect guest for this topic. One of her techniques was used in the movie, Girls Trip, and involves a grapefruit, a banana and Tiffany Haddish.  Listen in as we discuss how to please yourselfContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 43: How to Please Yourself And Your Partner In The Bedroom Ft. The “Grapefruit Lady,” Auntie Angel”

Go Girl Ep 42: How to Build Self-Pride and Self-Confidence Ft. Tucheir Cosmetics Founder, Trenese Hicks

“The best part of being beautiful is being you.” Those are the words from Tucheir Cosmetics Founder, Trenese Hicks. After years of working with accomplished female leaders in corporate America, Trenese became disheartened. So many of these brilliant women were talking negatively about themselves and trying to reach unattainable “Hollywood” beauty standards fueled by socialContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 42: How to Build Self-Pride and Self-Confidence Ft. Tucheir Cosmetics Founder, Trenese Hicks”

Go Girl Ep 41: How to Find Your Purpose Ft. Speaker, Author and Life Purpose Coach, Shelley Meche’tte

We all have a purpose for why we’re here. We are here to learn and to teach. We are here to use our gifts and talents. We are here to serve. We are here for a purpose. Many people are constantly searching for why they are here. Do you ever have deep conversations with yourselfContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 41: How to Find Your Purpose Ft. Speaker, Author and Life Purpose Coach, Shelley Meche’tte”

Go Girl Ep 40: 3 Ways To Dream BIG And Accomplish Your Goals Ft. Motivational Speaker, Ms. Tee

Hey, girls! Happy new year, happy new decade! With a new year comes new goals, so I decided to have girl talk with Motivational Speaker and CEO of Studio T Dance, Miss Tee. Her mission is to instill real life skills, hope & a sense of belonging to her students. Listen in as we have girl talk aboutContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 40: 3 Ways To Dream BIG And Accomplish Your Goals Ft. Motivational Speaker, Ms. Tee”

Go Girl Ep 39: Get OUT of Your Own Way! 5 Tips to Stay Self-Motivated

Hey, girls! The year is almost over. Did you accomplish all of your goals? If not, it’s okay. I get it, girl. The holidays are here. We’re eating. We’re spending time with our family. We’re shopping. But this is still a great time to set the foundation for 2020. In this episode, I’m focusing onContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 39: Get OUT of Your Own Way! 5 Tips to Stay Self-Motivated”

Go Girl Ep 38: HIV/AIDS Advocate Masonia Traylor Says “When People See Me They Don’t See HIV”

World Aids Day just passed on December 1st so I decided to have girl talk with Masonia Traylor, a global HIV/AIDS advocate. During a routine medical visit in late 2010, she was told by her provider that she “was not at risk” for HIV. At the tender age of 23, she was diagnosed as HIV positiveContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 38: HIV/AIDS Advocate Masonia Traylor Says “When People See Me They Don’t See HIV””

Go Girl Ep 37: From Heartbreak and Homelessness to Success Ft. Film Director, Nicole Cecilia

When things fall down sometimes it’s hard to pick ourselves back up. We all go through struggles but it’s how you get out of it that really shows your strength and character. I had the pleasure of speaking with Film Director, Nicole Cecilia, about how she found her greatest opportunity after a divorce, a death,Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 37: From Heartbreak and Homelessness to Success Ft. Film Director, Nicole Cecilia”

Go Girl Ep 36: 5 Tips on How to Heal and Forgive After Heartbreak

The last two episodes of the Go Girl Podcast were about leaving a toxic and/or abusive relationship. We can’t just talk about problems without discussing solutions. So today let’s have girl talk about five ways to heal and forgive. I share a few tips from my  “Go Girl Guidebook: A Woman’s Interactive Guide to Self-Love” so be sure to purchase your copyContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 36: 5 Tips on How to Heal and Forgive After Heartbreak”

Go Girl Ep 35: Red Flags of Abusive Relationships and How to Escape Safely Ft. Jenesse Center’s Dr. Angela

“Why don’t you just leave?” That’s the worst thing you can say to someone in an abusive relationship. In fact, anywhere between 50% and 75% of domestic violence homicides happen at the point of separation or after [the victim] has already left [her abuser}. So the victim might be afraid to leave. In the previous episode of the GoContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 35: Red Flags of Abusive Relationships and How to Escape Safely Ft. Jenesse Center’s Dr. Angela”

Go Girl Ep 34: “The Day I Called The Police I Knew It Was Over” My Story of Domestic Violence Ft. Trish Steele

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This topic is important to me for more reasons than one, but the most recent situation is when I left an emotionally abusive relationship. The day I called the police I knew it was over. Abuse isn’t just physical. Emotional abuse leaves scars that no one can see. IfContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 34: “The Day I Called The Police I Knew It Was Over” My Story of Domestic Violence Ft. Trish Steele”

Go Girl Ep. 33: Breast Cancer Survivor, Dr. Nicole Robinson, Says “I Found Purpose Through My Diagnosis”

Have you ever had a mammogram? According to the American Cancer Society, about 271,000 people will be diagnosed with breast cancer, so it’s important to get checked! Since October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I brought in breast cancer survivor, Dr. Nicole Robinson, who says she found purpose in her diagnosis. Listen in as we have girl talkContinue reading “Go Girl Ep. 33: Breast Cancer Survivor, Dr. Nicole Robinson, Says “I Found Purpose Through My Diagnosis””

Go Girl Ep 32: How To Elevate Your Life In 2020 and Beyond Ft. Life Coach, Angelique Jackson

Can you believe the year is almost over??? Did you accomplish your goals from 2019? No? It’s okay. Don’t be hard on yourself. Now is the perfect time to create a foundation so that you have a successful 2020. In this episode, I have girl talk with Life Coach, Angelique Jackson, who’s committed to helping othersContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 32: How To Elevate Your Life In 2020 and Beyond Ft. Life Coach, Angelique Jackson”

Go Girl Ep 31: How To Manifest The Life You Deserve Ft. Actress and Author, Brely Evans

Focus on what you want, not what you don’t want! Actress, producer and author Brely Evans knows all about manifesting the life you deserve! You may have seen her in “Sparkle” or currently watch her as Rondell Lancaster in the OWNTV series, “Ambitions.” As an actress, she’s gone through rejection but she says, “I get excited when I hear NO.”Continue reading “Go Girl Ep 31: How To Manifest The Life You Deserve Ft. Actress and Author, Brely Evans”

Go Girl Ep 30: 5 Things We Can All Learn From Missy Elliott

Missy Elliott can do no wrong! As a creative, an artist, a woman…a Black woman…I just love everything about Missy. Ever since she dropped her first video with her wearing a black trash bag to now doing the double dutch with two ponytails in her latest video, she exudes self-love by being her authentic self. She received theContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 30: 5 Things We Can All Learn From Missy Elliott”

Go Girl Ep 29: Tips on How To Trust Your Instincts

Have you gone through life and wondered what’s next? Have you been at a crossroads and don’t know which way to go? How about your gut keeps telling you to go in one direction but you’re still hesitant to take that leap of faith? I’m here to tell you to get out of your ownContinue reading “Go Girl Ep 29: Tips on How To Trust Your Instincts”